Welcome to Stef Espag’s

Tools for Life Change


Welcome to my website! I once read the following and it made such a huge impression on me: Nobody who ever bought a drill actually wanted a drill … they wanted a hole. We can elaborate … Nobody who ever bought a saw wanted a saw, they probably wanted a branch to be removed. Nobody who ever bought a broom wanted a broom, they probably wanted a clean floor! You probably did not visit my website because you wanted counselling or coaching, but because you want something in your life to be different than what you currently experience.



What might that “something” be?  Maybe you are hurting … or suffering because of a low self-esteem … or having some relationship problem … or you are planning to get married … or having some parenting struggle … or feel that you are not succeeding in your work environment …  The list can go on and on.


In my ministry of individual counselling and coaching, as well as by means of my website,  I share with you first of all powerful tools that are found in the Word of God – the Bible.  I love and regard the Word of God very highly and my whole ministry of teaching and counselling is built upon these truths:


  • John 8.31-32:  So Jesus said to those Jews who had believed in Him, If you abide in My word [hold fast to My teachings and live in accordance with them], you are truly My disciples.   And you will know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free (Amplified Bible).


  • Joh 6:63  It is the Spirit Who gives life [He is the Life-giver]; the flesh conveys no benefit whatever [there is no profit in it]. The words (truths) that I have been speaking to you are spirit and life (Amplified Bible).


  • Isa 55:8 -11  For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord.  :9  For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.  :10  For as the rain and snow come down from the heavens, and return not there again, but water the earth and make it bring forth and sprout, that it may give seed to the sower and bread to the eater, :11  So shall My word be that goes forth out of My mouth: it shall not return to Me void [without producing any effect, useless], but it shall accomplish that which I please and purpose, and it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it (Amplified Bible).


Furthermore, I aim to provide you with “Personal and Inter-personal Leadership Life Skill Tools” that will enable you to bring about the change in your life and relationships you are looking for.  Consider the following:


What you DO NOT know
can hurt you and your relationships very badly.
You NEED knowledge!


Knowledge is NOT power!
that is very powerful.


Actually … life is not about getting more knowledge
but rather about finding the TRUTH,
because it is only the Truth of God’s Word that can truly set one free!

Please visit regularly to catch up with new articles and free downloadable media. 
I trust you will find the help you need!

Feel free to contact me for:

INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING or COACHING (I am situated in Richards Bay)
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